I love these 7 Minute Seminary videos! Here’s Dr. Ben Witherington of Asbury Theological Seminary discussing women and ministry roles: Make sure you note (from the end of the video) the 3 things that are the basis for ministry roles in the New Testament.
Life is full of challenges. In class this week we talked about the four things most Christians stumble over. They are somewhat sequential in our walk to spiritual maturity, but not entirely.
The first thing we stumble over, our first hurdle, is SALVATION itself. We struggle at the very beginning of the path with the idea that we are sinners, that we cannot save ourselves, that Jesus was the Son of God, that Jesus gave His life on our behalf, and so on. It’s just not so easy to embrace the whole idea.
The next thing we stumble over is THE WORD. Learning to read the Bible regularly, to study it, to actually understand it, and to make it a central part of our lives can be so darn hard. We may not understand how critical the Word is to our lives. And even if we know it’s important, we still tend to neglect it. It takes commitment, discipline, practice, and maybe some outside help to become a consistent consumer of the Word.
Then there is the LORDSHIP struggle – the idea that God is to be the most important, all-consuming person in our lives. There cannot be anything or anyone more important than Him. He doesn’t want to just be at the top of our priority list, He wants to own our whole life! Surrendering ourselves, our ideas, and our “idols” is an ongoing, life-long process. We continue to stumble over this for much of our lives. We may surrender one part of ourselves, only to discover a few months later that some new idol has cropped up.
And finally, we stumble over PEOPLE. People can be so hard to love – because we are sinners, they are sinners, and that can make for a fine mess. Yet Jesus clearly told us in Matthew 22:37-39 that the Greatest Commandment is to love the Lord and to love people! We are not only to love people, we are to make disciples of them and help teach them how to follow Jesus – that was the Great Commission in Matthew 28:19-20.
So where are you at in your journey? What are you wrestling with? Salvation? The Word? Lordship? People?
I challenge you to think it over and discuss it with a friend. Then decide what you’re going to do about it. Don’t miss the whole point of your life on earth after you come to know Christ… He has called us to love and to labor. Let’s do it!
The Samaritan woman talking to Jesus was confused. How in the world could one could get water without a rope and a bucket (or a pot)?! Yet Jesus had clearly said that He had water and she could have some of it. She was perplexed.
I think I must be like her sometimes – it seems like I limit the work of God, I hesitate in obedience, because I cannot imagine how in the world He would do it. Yes Lord, I hear You clearly – but how in the world are You going to do that? How? I cannot see it.
I am convicted that I must obey what I hear clearly, and let God sort out the how… After all, He is the Lord of the Universe and the owner of the cattle on a thousand hills.
The sign of great leaders is not what they accomplish on their own, but what they accomplish through others. – John Maxwell, A Leader’s Heart devotional
There is no limit to what you can accomplish if you don’t care who gets the credit. ~ Ronald Reagan
*guest blog by Susie Walther, www.thewellbiblestudy.org
There are six kinds of women who come to Bible study.
The unsaved woman: she’s the one who doesn’t think she’s a sinner in need of repentance or a Savior because she thinks she’s a “good person” or she loves her sin too much to embrace the Cross and walk away from it.
The spiritually prideful woman: she’s satisfied with how long she’s “been a Christian” and her service in/to the church. She’s not really a disciple (which means “learner”) because she’s quite pleased with what she already thinks she knows.
The lukewarm woman: she doesn’t do her Bible study, doesn’t have a regular quiet time, doesn’t habitually pray, and goes to church or Bible study only when they fit conveniently into her schedule because the spiritual stuff always gets dropped first.
The cheap grace woman: she’s convinced she can live like a pagan and still go to a holy heaven. Baptism, confirmation or “accepting Jesus into her heart” are the golden tickets to eternal life; obedience, holiness, and actual Christ-likeness are optional.
The churched woman: she’s a faithful “attendee,” constantly in the receive and “I need to be fed” mode. She’s a Christian-faith junkie (conferences, Bible studies, books, retreats, Christian radio, etc.) – it’s just that she doesn’t ever, really “go and make disciples” because of her faith.
But there’s one last woman who’ll come through our doors, and that’s the spiritually hungry woman. She knows she needs Jesus. She wants to learn. She wants to grow. She’s transparent. She’s available. She’s willing to invest in the disciplines of her faith because she wants to become like Jesus in her character and a woman of spiritual influence to the people around her.
You are one of these six types.
I hope to God you’re the spiritually hungry one because the church already has plenty of the others.
A simple question:
You are almost never late for your appointments
A question that reveals a great deal about you and how you relate to the world and others! Marry someone, work with someone, or parent someone with a different personality type – a different take on the world – and the simple things can be so frustrating!
We first encountered Myers-Briggs and other personality tests in our premarital counselling. I have continued to use temperament testing in ministry and work settings (and refer to it on our marriage) because so much about us is revealed in a few short questions.
What are you great at? What do you do naturally that others struggle to achieve? What environment will drive you crazy? What are your areas of weakness in relationships and life? How can you best go about maximizing your strengths and moderating (or fixing!) your weaknesses?
You can take a simple, free test in about 3 minutes here.
Then go to www.personalitypage.com and type in your letters.
If you want a more in-depth look, I would recommend the book Please Understand Me by David Kiersey.
There is also another, non-Myers-Briggs temperament testing system that uses the categories Choleric, Sanguine, Phlegmatic, and Melancholy. Beverly LaHaye wrote The New Spirit Controlled Woman, a Christian book using these temperament types to look at types, marriage, communication styles, anger & depression (most of us struggle with one or the other!), and ministry roles. Those are also great tools!
So me? I am an ESTJ – the Organizer and Administrator. I am 80% Choleric and 20% Sanguine, just so we don’t forget to have some fun while we are out conquering and organizing the world!
How about you? Have you ever used temperament testing in ministry or your marriage?
* Special thanks to Tom Fuerst at http://thefuerstshallbelast.wordpress.com/ for bringing up temperaments and reminding me about this ministry tool we often overlook!
** I’ll put the link my Resources page so you can find it later.
Every morning I holler and wait on my daughter, who is never ready when it’s time to go. Regardless of whether she got out of bed 5 minutes ago or an hour ago, she’s just not ready. She brushes her hair, puts on her earrings, ties her shoes, and eats breakfast in the car… She comes when I call, but she’s not ready. It feels like I spend half the day waiting on that girl to get ready.
When God called to Moses in Exodus 3:4 Moses said “Here I am” and he was ready. Even after 40 years of tending sheep in the wilderness, Moses had not lost his readiness.
Oswald Chambers wrote about this last week (4/18). “When God speaks, many of us are like people in a fog, and we give no answer. Moses’ reply to God revealed that he knew where he was and that he was ready. Readiness means having a right relationship to God and having the knowledge of where we are. We are so busy telling God where we would like to go.”
That’s me, always telling God where I’d like to go, what I’d like to do. It’s hard to listen to Him when I’m always talking!
“Yet the man or woman who is ready for God and His work is the one who receives the prize when the summons comes. We wait with the idea that some great opportunity or something sensational will be coming our way, and when it does come we are quick to cry out, “Here I am.”
That’s me again, I’m looking to do something big, important for God. Let’s go storm the castle!
“Whenever we sense that Jesus Christ is rising up to take authority over some great task, we are there, but we are not ready for some obscure duty. Readiness for God means that we are prepared to do the smallest thing or the largest thing— it makes no difference.”
Obscure duty, small things. Hmm. Not so glamorous. Be he who is faithful in the small things, will be given even greater responsibility. The small things do matter, I just don’t like the fact that they are obscure. Not noticed. But still important.
“It means we have no choice in what we want to do, but that whatever God’s plans may be, we are there and ready. Be ready for the sudden surprise visits of God. A ready person never needs to get ready— he is ready. Think of the time we waste trying to get ready once God has called!”
Oh Lord Jesus, help me to BE ready to do WHATEVER you call me to do.
* My Utmost for His Highest, free online at http://utmost.org